No, I don’t. Thanks for the compliment.
I’m fine, thanks!
(cont) I think especially men have problems with that. As teenagers, boys are very easy to arouse and so they wank very often. I’m sure that this is a problem - especially for women. It seems that men’s thoughts focus on sex 24 hours a day and when a man has a sex toy, the ladies say “Yeah! This was cleary! Always horny, always wanking. What kind of a pervert!”
It’s a other story, when a woman has a sex toy. The canon thinks “Yeah! Poor little girl. Her friend can’t bring her to orgasm. So she’s very modern and clever in getting herself a toy!” Thereby all of this isn’t true. Sex isn’t some kind of a contest. In the end it’s only a game. And games are fun :3 I think it’s not fair to hail the women sexuality and demonize the male sexuality at the same time.
We are all humans. And we all like something other. You like your fleshlight, I like my vibrator ;) It’s ok and even when your friends make fun of it - it’s your way of life and your way of enjoy life. And to be honest, I have the same issues :P I’m not talking with any of my friends about sex, so they don’t know I have a little toy. My very best friend is very prude. She doesn’t like any kind of talking about her sexuality - but she has two children :P
So you see we are all confusing - Men AND women :D I like it when men enjoy their sexuality. And to be honest, it’s sooo incredibly hot to see you use your FLs :3 Hehe sorry for this looong post, but I felt the urge to writing :D And I hope you understand my bla bla, ‘coz I’m not a native english speaker and -yeah- it’s kind of hard to represent an opinion in another language :P Have a nice day, my dear! - Sunny
Your message is very positive and very articulated. Don’t worry about English not being your first language. You speak it beautifully.
Look, I don’t think that people see a man with an active sex life like a caveman. What I think is that some people feel jealous when they see a guy having a better sex life than theirs. Actually none of us is capable of taking a peek in other people’s sex lives because the majority of us aren’t voyeurs or exhibitionists, LOL, so we just assume things based on what we see at parties, bars, clubs, Facebook, etc. People assume things like “oh, look: he’s always surrounded by hot girls” thus they process that observation as: oh, he probably has a great sex life and is good in bed. But they never imagine that there are other dozen factors that should be taken in consideration such as: is the guy really good in bed or is he just a charismatic and amazing person? So things are way deeper than any assumption.
But when it comes to fleshlighting, then there is a prevailing stigma: people don’t see a guy with a sex toy as someone who is just exploring his sexuality in a healthy way. They either think of him as a perv horny bastard or as a loser that don’t get to sleep with women. As you said it yourself, some women think men are a bunch of horny bastards that only want sex. That is sad because there is a lot of sensible and nice guys that LOVE sex and would still make great partners. Above all sex is about connection and romantic feelings so it should never be seen as a bad and dirty thing. Same goes to fleshlighting: a guy sometimes deserves to experience sex joy, or just release sexual tension, without having to engage with anyone but himself. I have posted several posts in my tumblr telling women to NEVER fear a sex toy thinking that a guy would rather fuck the toy than a real girl OR that the guy is strange for enjoying sex toys. Not even proud Fleshlighters would prefer the toy instead of the real thing. Sex is about connection as I stated before.
I don’t understand when you say that “sex isn’t a contest but a game.” I don’t ever think of sex as a game. Perhaps I think of it as something ‘playful’ but never as a game. But there’s one thing I agree with you: people should never demonize the male sexuality. Actually: sexuality IN GENERAL should never be demonized at all. Sex is something natural and gotta be celebrated.
At last I gotta say that even though I love to fleshlight and I’m proud of this hobby of mine, fleshlighting isn’t my only way to enjoy life. ;) I just wanted to make that clear to all.
Thank you again for your message, dear Sunny. Have a great weekend.
get a cockring or something that keeps it back… dunno
All I know is that it’s a sextoy designed for men. I don’t think foreskin was taken in consideration when FL was in development. If yours is in the way, pull it back and go to town!
Thanks for the compliments!
Hey Deutsch Fleshlighter!
Yeah, plain inlays can be quite boring for ‘lighters used to more challenging ones.
And yeah: you cannot send anon pics/vids when logged into Tumblr with your account, but you can log off and fill out the submission for with whichever name/alias you feel comfortable using. In order to submit a vide, you cannot attach it to the form and send it. Tumblr does not store submission videos lesser if it’s an adult oriented video. You’ll have to use one of the adult tubes (xvideos, xtube, etc) and them send the embedded code in your submission form.