Fleshlighters

For the lighters.

Q&A

Anonymous asked: Great blog! Do you sell used Fleshlights? I like the idea of using one another guy has shot his load in.

No, I don’t. Thanks for the compliment.

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This Saturday I’m taking some me time… and this picture describes exactly what I’ll be doing most of the day: being a proud Fleshlighter and enjoying myself above all.
My advice: get your FL pussies out, ‘lighters… fuck ‘em good!

This Saturday I’m taking some me time… and this picture describes exactly what I’ll be doing most of the day: being a proud Fleshlighter and enjoying myself above all.

My advice: get your FL pussies out, ‘lighters… fuck ‘em good!

(Source: lanson1969, via kornjoc)

Q&A

Anonymous asked: Hi how are you

I’m fine, thanks!

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Me pounding my Fleshlight Flight with my precum, no lube. Pretty intensive.

MY ANSWER: Wow, ‘lighter… that IS pretty intensive, yo! No lube, fuck! I bet the friction was tough. Thanks for the submission and welcome to the club!
Cheers

Me pounding my Fleshlight Flight with my precum, no lube. Pretty intensive.

MY ANSWER: Wow, ‘lighter… that IS pretty intensive, yo! No lube, fuck! I bet the friction was tough. Thanks for the submission and welcome to the club!

Cheers

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Anonymous asked: 1/5 Hey, king of ligthers! It's me! Sunny :) You always say that you like it, when you're female followers write you and share their opinions with you. So here I am, having an opinoin to share ;) It's because of your entry about the dishonor of men and their toys. I think it's a common social problem. We live in a very modern society, but sex is still a taboo; so if you have a activ sex life (mastrubation or fucking) you are seen as some kind of a caveman very fast.

(cont)  I think especially men have problems with that. As teenagers, boys are very easy to arouse and so they wank very often. I’m sure that this is a problem - especially for women. It seems that men’s thoughts focus on sex 24 hours a day and when a man has a sex toy, the ladies say “Yeah! This was cleary! Always horny, always wanking. What kind of a pervert!”
It’s a other story, when a woman has a sex toy. The canon thinks “Yeah! Poor little girl. Her friend can’t bring her to orgasm. So she’s very modern and clever in getting herself a toy!” Thereby all of this isn’t true. Sex isn’t some kind of a contest. In the end it’s only a game. And games are fun :3 I think it’s not fair to hail the women sexuality and demonize the male sexuality at the same time.
We are all humans. And we all like something other. You like your fleshlight, I like my vibrator ;) It’s ok and even when your friends make fun of it - it’s your way of life and your way of enjoy life. And to be honest, I have the same issues :P I’m not talking with any of my friends about sex, so they don’t know I have a little toy. My very best friend is very prude. She doesn’t like any kind of talking about her sexuality - but she has two children :P
So you see we are all confusing - Men AND women :D I like it when men enjoy their sexuality. And to be honest, it’s sooo incredibly hot to see you use your FLs :3 Hehe sorry for this looong post, but I felt the urge to writing :D And I hope you understand my bla bla, ‘coz I’m not a native english speaker and -yeah- it’s kind of hard to represent an opinion in another language :P Have a nice day, my dear! - Sunny

MY ANSWER:
Dear Sunny,

Your message is very positive and very articulated. Don’t worry about English not being your first language. You speak it beautifully.

Look, I don’t think that people see a man with an active sex life like a caveman. What I think is that some people feel jealous when they see a guy having a better sex life than theirs. Actually none of us is capable of taking a peek in other people’s sex lives because the majority of us aren’t voyeurs or exhibitionists, LOL, so we just assume things based on what we see at parties, bars, clubs, Facebook, etc. People assume things like “oh, look: he’s always surrounded by hot girls” thus they process that observation as: oh, he probably has a great sex life and is good in bed. But they never imagine that there are other dozen factors that should be taken in consideration such as: is the guy really good in bed or is he just a charismatic and amazing person? So things are way deeper than any assumption.

But when it comes to fleshlighting, then there is a prevailing stigma: people don’t see a guy with a sex toy as someone who is just exploring his sexuality in a healthy way. They either think of him as a perv horny bastard or as a loser that don’t get to sleep with women. As you said it yourself, some women think men are a bunch of horny bastards that only want sex. That is sad because there is a lot of sensible and nice guys that LOVE sex and would still make great partners. Above all sex is about connection and romantic feelings so it should never be seen as a bad and dirty thing. Same goes to fleshlighting: a guy sometimes deserves to experience sex joy, or just release sexual tension, without having to engage with anyone but himself. I have posted several posts in my tumblr telling women to NEVER fear a sex toy thinking that a guy would rather fuck the toy than a real girl OR that the guy is strange for enjoying sex toys. Not even proud Fleshlighters would prefer the toy instead of the real thing. Sex is about connection as I stated before.

I don’t understand when you say that “sex isn’t a contest but a game.” I don’t ever think of sex as a game. Perhaps I think of it as something ‘playful’ but never as a game. But there’s one thing I agree with you: people should never demonize the male sexuality. Actually: sexuality IN GENERAL should never be demonized at all. Sex is something natural and gotta be celebrated.

At last I gotta say that even though I love to fleshlight and I’m proud of this hobby of mine, fleshlighting isn’t my only way to enjoy life. ;) I just wanted to make that clear to all.

Thank you again for your message, dear Sunny. Have a great weekend.

Cheers!

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You can see the joy, pleasure, and satisfaction in the eyes of each of these Fleshlighters. Not only an incredible sex toy but an experience! Whether yours resembles to a pussy, a mouth, or a butthole, make sure you making yourself feel good above all.

(Source: myeroticartproject, via fleshtools)

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Fleshlighter putting his beloved toy to good use. Go use your FLs today, ‘lighters!

Fleshlighter putting his beloved toy to good use. Go use your FLs today, ‘lighters!

(Source: franjo41)

Q&A

Anonymous asked: Do you have one? I would have to pull it back again every single pound. :D

get a cockring or something that keeps it back… dunno

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Anonymous asked: The Flight Inlay is really challenging for me. I usually takes me 10 Minutes to come. I guess a less challenging one is easier to fuck for a longer time and making the joy as long as possible. Do you know if the Fleshlight is a product designed for circumcised guys considering it's an american product? I sometimes feel like my foreskin is in the way while using it. Thanks for your advice on uploading media anonymously. I uploaded a picture. Your blog is amazing btw.

All I know is that it’s a sextoy designed for men. I don’t think foreskin was taken in consideration when FL was in development. If yours is in the way, pull it back and go to town!

Thanks for the compliments!

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Anonymous asked: Hey! It's me, the german fleshlighter again. Thanks for your advice! I made a mistake ... I meant my cock to long for the Fleshlight Flight I'm using. I found the "Fleshlight Pink Stealth Original" you showed me on my local amazon. Maybe I'll buy it, but I'm a little worried about the inlay (it seems to be very simple and boring). But at least it's long enough and my glans wont touch the end of the hardcase everytime I'm pounding it hard. BTW: Is there any way to submit pics/vids anonym?

Hey Deutsch Fleshlighter!

Yeah, plain inlays can be quite boring for ‘lighters used to more challenging ones.

And yeah: you cannot send anon pics/vids when logged into Tumblr with your account, but you can log off and fill out the submission for with whichever name/alias you feel comfortable using. In order to submit a vide, you cannot attach it to the form and send it. Tumblr does not store submission videos lesser if it’s an adult oriented video. You’ll have to use one of the adult tubes (xvideos, xtube, etc) and them send the embedded code in your submission form.

Cheers!